User Manual of Me

The Thought Railway

Every stressful moment arrives at a junction. Who chooses the track?
How the railway works

Our first thought can arrive automatically

1 · The train arrives
Situation
2 · Track already laid
Automatic interpretation
3 · Where it takes you
Reaction
PhysicalEmotionalBehavioural
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I am Kili. I repeat words without thinking. Automatic thoughts do the same.
A thought is not automatically a fact. You can switch the track.
Change the perception

Threat or challenge?

“I can’t cope with this.”
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THREAT
“This is difficult. What can I do?”
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CHALLENGE
Does “challenge” mean the situation becomes easy?
No. It means I begin looking for resources.
AUTOMATIC TRACK DELIBERATE TRACK STUCK RESOURCES JUNCTION
Situation

Kili says (automatic thought)
Reaction board
Automatic
Deliberate
Body
Feelings
Action
THREATCHALLENGE
Track A · Automatic thought
Track B · Deliberate thought
Hands up! Which thought would you have?
◀ A · AutomaticDeliberate · B ▶
Talk about it
Resources Junction

What helps deliberate thinking win?

A thought is not automatically a fact. These resources help you switch the track.
A healthy body gives you energy.
A regulated mind helps you direct it.
Health affects how well you can use every other resource you have.
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